Being around family and friends who have children can be hard no matter what the time of year but for some reason around the holidays it is just harder. Why? Maybe it’s because you have to sit around the Thanksgiving table and hear your family members ask you the dreaded question…“When are you going to have a baby?” Or maybe it ‘s getting that Christmas card that has a photo of your friend holding her stomach with a ribbon on it that says “coming soon.” For some reason the holidays just seem to put a spotlight on your struggle with infertility. So what can you do to make the holidays easier and not just a reminder of what you don’t have? Here are some suggestions.